Commitment

Why is it that people always reach out to their EX when they are about to commit to another?

I guess its cos anything and everything in life is a 50% chance.

You win or loose
You are successful or not
You are happy or sad
You are dominant or not

You can not be sure of the outcome in any situation.

I think that is the driving factor for people to always reach out to their earlier lovers when they have chosen someone.

It is like the final straw to make sure they are doing the right thing. If you are the one chosen then if there is an EX... I am sure there is a discussion... if not anything at least to make things right and be friends again... so that they can from now on have contact!

This has become sort of a trend I see in many people. May be that is how people behave! Its human nature! 

Men are complicated creatures…

MEN...

They don’t always know what they want… they want everything they see… they have no clue what to do in a situation that is messy… they can think clearly and do stuff if their mind is clear, and if they are stress free and if they think they want to… they deflect what they can’t deal with on the other gender so easily… they think they are so simple but they are so complex and don’t every admit it… they want their paws on anything and everything they can find and graze through just for the heck of it… they get bored so easily cos they don’t like to get into the depth of anything… they say they think about sex a lot but in reality one woman will never ever see it cos its always with varied women so either the men don’t get it as much as they desire and just fantasize in their mind and don’t give as much to one women as they need…

All they want a woman to do is not question them or ask them anything or interfere with all their wants and desires and fantasies and support them in all possible ways and always be there for them!   

How selfish is that! And they say women are complicated!

Women become complicated seeing all this craziness cos when a person is all over the place… the girl kinda takes a stand or behaves more all over the place to make sure that the system is balanced trying to give them the upper hand!

What an interesting life! :D